Change in a child’s daily status quo is the main factor why anxiety disorder is so prominent in this group of individuals. Anything from change in environment, relocation and new beginning, abuse, violence, divorce, remarriage, first day of school and death, all seems to carry equal weight for children. They fear the worst. In fact, it becomes a nightmare having to deal with the constant change of events in life. While adults welcome changes with open arms, children do not adapt to changes happily and immediately. Often so, they retaliate by rebelling or choose to suffer in silence.
Parents often dismiss the sudden outburst in behavior as a phase their young child or teenager is going through and that it will soon be over. The sudden change in conduct cannot be taken for granted, as it may be a cry for help. Some remain in denial and reject any suggestion that their child or teenager have an anxiety disorder.
Negative incidences have even worse effect on a child causing them to be traumatized and unloved. Most of the time, they are victim of unwanted circumstances. Insecurity a child feels about towards a change is normal. It is utmost important that they do not feel at fault for the things that have taken place. Disruption and complication can arise if parents do not give satisfactory explanation and reassurance to their child.
Reconizing AD In Teenagers
Teenagers are the extension of childhood. Social acceptance centers around the world teenagers grow up in. Peer pressure, ability to cope and perform in school, conforming to society and finally finding their own unique identity is too much of a change to handle at a very young age. The teenage years are formative years before they become adults. Any stress or tension in the family at early childhood, childhood up to teen years can affect the way they turn out as adults.
The last thing any parent one is to have to deal with teenagers suffering from anxiety disorders. It is not only nerve wrecking but can be a frightening experience. Being teenagers, they should be able to convey their happiness, sadness and fear. Encourage them to do so and prepare them for bigger issues that might challenge them before reaching the next stage in life – adulthood.
Dealing with anxiety, fear or stress in a child can take months to overcome. Children need their space and with many healing techniques, time is essence.